Two questions answered

Feb 13, 2007

In answer to the question are Edward and Donna still a couple; yes. They are still a couple. Still engaged.
I’m not sure I understand everyone’s problem with Nathaniel getting special time to himself. Maybe the reason Nathaniel seems to get more out of Anita as a compromise is the way he approaches her. Too many dominant personalities in any relationship can be very taxing. Sometimes a little topping from the bottom will sneak past a dominant personality a lot quicker than a direct confrontation. And sometimes the dominant personality doesn’t even realize until too late that manipulation from the bottom up is still manipulation. Am I speaking from experience? Maybe. I know that I have more trouble dealing with people who seem to be submissive, but are really topping from the bottom. Oh, in case topping from the bottom isn’t clear here’s what it means. Topping is a term for someone in the bondage scene to be dominant, to be in charge, to top the scene or relationship. People who top from the bottom are submissives, but they still manage to control the situation, to top it, even though they’re supposed to be on the bottom of the power structure.